EROTIC ALIVENESS ISNT ABOUT ACHIEVING A GOAL OR STRIVING FOR PERFECTION. IT’S ABOUT PEELING BACK THE LAYERS THAT HAVE DULLED YOUR SPARK AND REVEALING THE SENSUAL, SEXY AND VIBRANT WOMEN YOU’VE ALWAYS BEEN AT YOUR CORE.
IS YOUR BODY SENDING YOU SIGNALS?
THE HEAVINESS
That weight in your body after another day of giving everything to everyone else, while your own needs remain unmet and unnamed. The exhaustion that seeps into your bones, making even simple pleasures feel out of reach.
THE HOLLOW VICTORY
That strange emptiness that follows achievements that look impressive but leave you feeling nothing inside. The quiet voice asking “is this all there is?” as you add another accomplishment to your resume.
THE DEEP YEARNING
That ache for deeper connection in relationships that function efficiently but rarely touch the raw, beautiful truth of who you really are. The longing to be seen beyond your carefully constructed facade.
THE CONSTANT MANAGMENT
That exhaustion from constantly controlling, optimizing, and performing—leaving no space for surrender, for flow, for the messy magnificence of being fully human. The yearning to simply be rather than do.
WHAT IS EROTIC ALIVENESS?
It’s what makes you feel at home in your body, passionate in your work, and alive in your relationships.
WHEN YOU AWAKEN YOUR EROTIC ENERGY YOU COME BACK TO YOUR NATURAL STATE OF VIBRANCY, SENSUALITY, AND DEEP CONNECTION TO THE PULSATING PLEASURE OF LIFE ITSELF.
IMAGINE EXPERIENCING..
SENSUAL ALIVENESS
Feeling your body alive with sensation, every cell lit up with energy and pleasure.
DEEP INTIMACY
Creating deep, intimate connections from a place of authenticity and vulnerability.
EROTIC SURRENDER
Enjoying lovemaking with your whole body and soul, surrendered to your ever-expanding pleasure.
SOFT RESILIENCE
Moving through the hard times with love and tenderness.
EMOTIONAL ALCHEMY
Experiencing emotions as rich and powerful tools for growth and freedom (even when they suck).
INNER WHOLENESS
Creating success from a place of enoughness and freedom to choose.
IMAGINE EXPERIENCING..
SENSUAL ALIVENESS
Feeling your body alive with sensation, every cell lit up with energy and pleasure.
DEEP INTIMACY
Creating deep, intimate connections from a place of authenticity and vulnerability.
EROTIC SURRENDER
Enjoying lovemaking with your whole body and soul, surrendered to your ever-expanding pleasure.
SOFT RESILIENCE
Moving through the hard times with love and tenderness.
EMOTIONAL ALCHEMY
Experiencing emotions as rich and powerful tools for growth and freedom (even when they suck).
INNER WHOLENESS
Creating success from a place of enoughness and freedom to choose.
THIS ISN’T A FAR-OFF
DREAM. THIS CAN
BECOME YOUR
BASELINE...
SOMETHING YOU
EXPERIENCE MOST OF
THE TIME.
VOICES OF ALIVENESS
LOVE NOTES FROM CLIENTS
INGA
Dunja… warm, welcoming, safe, gentle, and soft. From the very beginning, she created a space where I could feel deeply held… free to explore forgotten corners of my existence. With so much care and gentleness, she guided me into places long buried, always giving enough room for whatever expression needed to arise.
In a respectful and intuitive way, she would sometimes offer her perspective in her own words — and somehow, those reflections helped me connect the dots around concepts I hadn’t quite been able to access on my own.
With her guidance, I found myself releasing outdated stories and stagnant energies. Every session felt like a soft and gentle trip into the interior of my being — and I loved how she suggested practices (always optional) to carry the work beyond the session itself. She always seemed to have just the right tools for integrating whatever surfaced. Grateful for the crossing of our paths.
FOUNDER / CREATOR
LIIS
When I started coaching with Dunja, my goal was to connect with my femininity to lead a more aligned life, improve my romantic relationship, and create more space and calm around me. Through Dunja’s guidance, I realized the importance of making space for myself and learned to trust my own path instead of following external advice.
Her meditations and psychoeducation were highlights – Dunja’s wisdom and knowledge consistently exceeded my expectations. I gained key insights, like understanding the fluidity of femininity, the importance of pleasure, and techniques like nostril breathing.
Dunja creates a safe, respectful, and balanced space for growth. I’m deeply grateful for this journey and the lasting impact it has had on me.
PR AND MARKETING SPECIALIST
Eric
Working with Dunja awakened a deep sense of erotic aliveness in me—a renewed presence with possibility, potential, and the vast unknown within. She helped me become more intimate with my emotional landscape and reconnect with forms of love I had long withheld from myself. Through her guidance, I found the courage to express myself, define my desires, and seek lasting inner resolution.
Dunja creates a rare, powerful container—one that allows access to the higher self and the vast depths within. I’m profoundly grateful for our work together. If she worked with men, I would continue in a heartbeat, because the journey with her is endlessly expansive.
Writer
THE METHOD TO AWAKEN YOUR EROTIC ENERGY
THE JOUNREY BACK TO YOURSELF
At the core of Coming Alive lies one truth…
your erotic aliveness is the fuel for everything.
Your healing. Your creativity. Your fulfillment- personal and professional.
PLEASURE IS YOUR POWER.
LOVE IS YOUR HOME.
1.
SOMATIC AND BREATHWORK PRACTICES
Through intentional movements and breath, we’ll release blocked energy and reconnect you to the vibrant sensations of your body. These tools will ground you in safety, presence, and aliveness.
2.
MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL EMPOWERMENT
We’ll uncover and rewrite limiting beliefs while nurturing your emotional resilience and spiritual connection, empowering you to step confidently into your truth.
3.
TANTRIC PRACTICES TO AWAKEN EROS
We will use ancient tantric practices to weave presence, sensuality, and mindful pleasure into your daily life and remind you of the Pleasure at the core of your being.
4.
CONSCIOUS COMMUNICATION GUIDANCE
I’ll guide you to express needs, desires, and boundaries with openness and honesty, creating trust and deeper intimacy in your relationships. You will discover the power of truth and vulnerability.
EXPERIENCE A TASTE OF EMBODIED ALIVENESS
FREE “EROTIC PULSE ACTIVATION” PRACTICE
Begin your journey back to Eros with this complimentary guided meditation. This gentle practice will help you:
- Connect with your pelvic bowl, a source of creativity, vitality, and pleasure.
- Activate your innate erotic aliveness through breath, sensation, and sound.
- Circulate vital energy throughout your body, creating an inner fountain of aliveness.
- Experience a moment of genuine presence and connection.
A LETTER FOR YOU
HEY BEAUTIFUL SOUL…
Welcome to my space, lovingly crafted since 2015.
As a triple-accredited coach, I passionately research what brings me closer to my truth, softer in my power, more alive in my body, and more connected in my relationships. I have served women’s homecoming for the last 10 years in various capacities as a coach, facilitator, retreat leader, and friend.
“Erotic aliveness”, a term I coined, became an obsession after falling numb and disconnected after the birth of my daughter. Although my heart was bursting with love and devotion for her, I could barely feel anything in my body, except heaviness and pain. This was so different from the excitement and turn-on I felt for Life beforehand.
As life would have it, I met many women on the way who had the same challenge.
And as A Course in Miracles says- If you want to learn something, teach it. So I enrolled in an additional 650 hours of education and embodiment work, learning and applying energy-activating, pleasure-driven, breathwork-enhanced protocols to bring my Eros back online. And girl, it worked. After 6 months, my energy came back bigger and brighter and with such erotic and creative potency that it was just a matter of time until my work re-centered itself around creating this for my clients.
While I regained my erotic essence, it came too late to save my marriage. Years of living side by side, yet not truly alive or connected, left a permanent mark. This led to a conscious, loving separation that was hard and beautiful at the same time. This journey illuminated the crucial need to reconnect with our Eros and embrace the vitality within our bodies and hearts. The cost of neglecting this connection can be profound.
Don’t wait for a crisis like I did. You deserve to feel alive and turned on by Life. This is our natural state. And together we can bring you back Home.
HERE FOR YOU,
DUNJA
A LETTER FOR YOU
HEY BEAUTIFUL SOUL…
Welcome to my space, lovingly crafted since 2015.
If you’re here, chances are you’re feeling something I know intimately… that aching disconnect between who you are and how alive you feel. Maybe you’re hustling through life but can barely feel your own body. Maybe motherhood or work has left you numb, going through the motions, but missing the juice. Maybe you’re having sex that doesn’t fulfill you, rarely feel turned on, and you don’t know how to change it. Maybe your whole body shudders at even the thought of being intimate with someone.
I see you because I was you.
After my daughter was born, I found myself in a body I couldn’t recognize. While my heart burst with love for her, everything else felt heavy, painful, and numb. The excitement and turn-on I once felt for life had vanished, replaced by a disconnection so profound I wondered if I’d ever feel truly alive again.
The wake-up call came during my first-ever tantra retreat. Lying there, I realized with startling clarity that all I could feel in my body was heaviness and disconnection. Pleasure?
It was like trying to access a language I’d forgotten how to speak. That moment changed everything.
What followed was nine months of the most intensive inner work of my life… 650 hours of coaching education and embodiment practices, combining energy work, pleasure-driven protocols, and breathwork. But it was during one particular practice that everything shifted into high gear. An energy awakening so profound that it didn’t just bring my aliveness back… it returned bigger, brighter, and with an erotic and creative potency I’d never experienced before.
Today, I experience pleasure daily in the smallest moments. My body is full of energy, vitality, and beauty. I can feel energy and move it intentionally. My capacity for sexual surrender and merging with sensation has become something I never thought possible. I handle all emotions with tenderness and power simultaneously.
I don’t avoid life to avoid feeling… instead, I feel free and empowered to try anything because I know I can handle whatever emotions arise and use them to feel even more alive.
But here’s what I learned: this transformation came too late to save my marriage.
THIS ISN’T ABOUT WORKING HARDER OR FIXING WHO YOU ARE. IT’S ABOUT AWAKENING SOMETHING DEEP AND ANCIENT WITHIN YOU. YOUR EROTIC ALIVENESS.
ARE YOU READY TO COME ALIVE?
YOUR EROTIC SELF BECKONS
You can get on the waitlist for Coming Alive and take the first step toward awakening your body, your pleasure, your life.
I will be in touch to organise a Discovery call free of charge, to see if my method is exactly what you need.
